New verse, new comments

As I have thought about this verse throughout my christian lifetime it has carried different significance. Isnt that the wonder of the Word of God? We can read a verse, then reread it and have different thoughts illuminated by the Holy Spirit within us.

WOW. If you like mysteries......then that is right up your alley.

Now for the next verse;

Philippians 3:14 "I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus."

The word PRESS used to mean something specific for me for much of my lifetime. Of course it is basketball related. A "press" is used by the defense to dictate the tempo of the game or to create turnovers which can lead to easy baskets. There is no "resting while pressing".... that was a phrase I used a lot as a coach. *SMILE* . Hopefully you can see the easy transition to our christian walk...

however... I have been led down different significant paths as I read this verse lately....

Goal.... win.... prize... all these definitely speak to me as former athlete and now as "poser" athlete! Yet.... still not .... quite.......fully..... now.......here it is......

.....HEAVENWARD in christ jesus....I am sorry to say I have missed this significance for much of my lifetime....

As I continue to learn how PRIDE and self worship prevents me from loving my savior intimately;

He teaches me that He has called me HEAVENWARD. Not to fix my eyes on these troubling times and treacherous waves (alas Peter). Not to fix my eyes on these temporary prizes and comforts. And certainly not to look elsewhere for answers for my needs for He is my Creator and He knows exactly what I need.

He teaches me that these years in this rented body (temple) which houses a soul that was bought with a heavy price.... are truly short.

and He loves me enough to keep saying, "Joe I am your Father and I know you need me and I know you are scared and I know you dont understand but you must trust me...I am preparing a place for you which is more than you can imagine..."

Oh Father, please continue to put your hand under my chin..... lift up my face so that my eyes may look heavenward.

Do you all feel his fingers under your chin??? I do and it is the best feeling in the world.

Heavenward...

looking up,
joe

Pray for Stellan

Please find it in your day to pray for sweet miracle baby Stellan. You can find him at my side bar- mck mama. He is definitely a mckmiracle already, but is now in the hospital fighting for his life with RSV.

Toy Explosion

We just finished our 4th Christmas celebration and our house looks like a toy store explosion. Actually, it looks better than in past years. With the kids getting older, their gifts get more "sophisticated". We had a great Christmas and were able to spend time with those we love so much. We were also able to spend time reflecting on the real reason for all this celebrating: the birth of our sweet savior. As a mom, I always think of Mary so much leading up to Christmas day. Being pregnant, riding a donkey and traveling 100 miles pregnant-ughh! Yet she treasured all these things, and was scared, but obedient.
As I was driving to work on Christmas eve, I was thinking and praying about how I didn't feel I was in the "spirit" of the season. I thought back to the night we watched "The Nativity Story" as a family(excellent movie). There were so many teachable moments with the kids that night, but God taught me an important lesson. As I watched as God spoke to Joseph and told him to flee Bethlehem for Egypt, I realized that God has spoken to me that same way and continues to. Wow- the same God that spoke to Mary and Joseph speaks to me-if I will listen! That is amazing and so humbling.
If you know me at all you know that I tear up easily- so as I realize this driving down Carmel Drive to work I start to cry. I end up in my van in the parking lot trying to compose myself before heading in to work, praying like everyday, asking God to help me be a blessing to others I come in contact with.

Have you ever been in a real dark room? The kind where you cant see your hand even when you hold it right in front of your face?

Then there is a light... either through the bottom of the door.. or a lit match or something which allows there to be light. Isnt it amazing how the light overcomes the darkness?

The light.... it ..... WINS. Allegorically speaking light wins over dark all the time.

We (as christians) are the Light of the world.

I love this picture Christ paints for us....

Help me, O Lord, to be the brightest light I can.

joe

Christmas Cookies

Another tradition we have in the Bennett household is to deliver cookies to all of our neighbors. (Even the ones we don't talk to much-according to Ann). We packed the kids up in the van since it was below 0 windchill and drove them from house to house. If the weather is nice we walk it with the stroller or wagon full of treats. We fill up tins, ziploc containers, or like this year, pretty bags, full of a variety of cookies and goodies homemade for the holidays. Most of our neighbors have come to expect it now, and some even give the kids a gift back. One house gave the boys $3. each. The girls were too cold and didn't go up- they went to ALL the rest. It was cute watching the kids run up and down to each of the houses, they have fun doing it. Hopefully a good memory for them all, I know it is for me.

Merry Christmas to Me!

Didn't she do a great job? I told Amy that I wanted a new blog background etc. for Christmas. I am way too impatient to do it and she loves to sit here and mess with it. Thank you Amy it is beautiful and I love listening to the music.

AHEM.

AHEM. Hello! Its Amy here. i just wanted to point out (In case you couldn't see) that I changed the picture and background. Well, if you ask me, i think it looks WAY better. And I like the bigger picture too. We got the background from "cutest blog on the block"! A very cute (and FREE) website that lets you decorate your blog! So, I just wanted to see what you guys thought! Please comment with suggestions and/or agreement! Thanks!

Amy

Oh yeah, and the music is from playlist.com FREE too!

(Hehe. I know how to do the linky thing! And my motha doesn't! *sneaky grin*)

The Polar Express

Andrew and I were able to go on the Polar Bear Express in Fishers with his class yesterday. It is a take on the classic storybook which was made into a movie with Tom Hanks, " The Polar Express". We got to ride on the train to the North Pole all the way across Fishers and back.

We ate cookies and had apple juice while we rode the rails. Santa and Mrs. Clause made an appearance, along with a polar bear and of course the Conductor of the train. We then went into the train station and heard a rendition of the story read by actors.

It was a very cool day and I was glad I got to share it with him.

Amy went as a kindergarten, Aaron's got snowed out, and Ann's class went to the Elk farm instead that year.

Gingerbread House

Another tradition we have is to make a gingerbread house. We just use the store bought kind. The kids really like it and it smells good and they generally have fun making it, in between fighting over the frosting.

The Nutcracker

Friday night I took the girls and Haley to see the Nutcracker Ballet by The Central Indiana Dance Ensemble. It is an ameteur group out of Carmel. They do a great job, very professional. This has become a tradition with the girls and I. We love the story and the music and dance. It just starts the Christmas season off for us. Ann especially likes it, she listens to the music year round! This year was fun too, because we knew quite a few of the dancers. It was fun to watch and pick out who the kids knew from school.

Thankful List Part 2

I was talking to my friend Stacie last night on my home from dropping Amy off at Drama rehearsal. Talking to Stacie always puts me in a good mood. As I walk in the house, which is strewn with Christmas stuff, I see Andrew has made a maze with the boxes and also made a "store" in said maze with all of his toys. I blow my top, completely out of proportion. You see, I hate my house in disarray. It makes me grouchy, and I take it out on whomever is around. My husband thought I was saying he was being a bad parent because he was playing chess with Aaron and talking on the phone while all of this was occurring. I wasn't, and had to explain myself later, I don't think I ever apologized though.(note to self- apologize).
I was reading before bed later and it hit me where I was.

From an excerpt of " I'm glad I'm a Mom" #14 "I love Smelly Shoes" by Lysa TerKeurst(Thanks Linda for the Book:)
For those not familiar with Lysa, she founded Proverbs 31 ministries and has a blog I read. She is real, funny and simple.

"It's all in how you look at things that makes a world of difference. If my approach is one that living life simply drains me, then I'll constantly feel drained. But if I can pull back the veil and peek behind the messes, chores, and faults of others, I'll see the treasure of what these things represent. I'm a wife! I'm a mom I've been handed the privilege to fulfill these eternally significant roles for some pretty amazing people... my family! " (Thanks God for the smack upside the head!)

So, what about my thankful list? I am thankful for smelly shoes , because that means I have active kids that can run and play, they are evidence of life well lived. Thankful I have a husband that works so hard we can pay for shoes for each of our kids, thankful for healthy kids who are blessed with athletic abilities that may pay for college some day, thankful for my creative kids I am blessed with who leave messes everywhere. Help me Lord to see past my grumbling spirit of chores and see all the things to be so thankful for.

Ephesians 2:7-9

It is the GIFT of God...

During this time of year the idea of Gift giving and receiving is at the forefront of our minds. We are eager to exchange gifts with our friends and loved ones. And many do really find more joy in giving than in receiving.

But the thought of a FREE GIFT..... From our Heavenly Father can make me speechless. NOT from our own works. Or in my paraphrase, not in our abilities, talents, achievements, looks, personality, attitude, graciousness, piousness, loyalty, work ethic, reputation, or even humble spirit. We cant earn it.

So that NOONE can boast. Cuz (text lingo rears its ugly head) we would boast if we could. Of course, not outloud in the chamber halls as the pharisee's did because Jesus specifically pointed them out as frauds, but rather in our own little loud boasting ways.

"God must have recognized my servants heart when I volunteered at the shelter"...or something disgusting like that.

By God's grace alone do I stand as a redeemed man who is glad that my works are not counted FOR me nor AGAINST me in regards to my eternal salvation.

I hope as you exchange gifts this Holiday season God will remind you of the Free Gift of God he is offering to all of mankind and I really like this, He is offering specifically to YOU. And me of course.

more to come,
joe

Thankful List

God
Hubby
Kids
Family & friends
cookies
Automobile DVD players
Tummy panel in slimming jeans
Target clearance aisles
chai tea
Magic eraser
bear hugs from my kids
Mac n cheese
Poison control
Brothers
Tweezers
My home
Pet doors
Padded braziers
Garage sales
Peppermint shakes
Church
Laughter
Things to laugh at
Cool weather
Naptime
Having more than enough
Hearing my kids laugh
Chocolate
Warm pajamas
concealer
A warm Bed
Paid Bills
A worn Bible
Christian Music
A car that runs
My parents
food in my cabinets
and so many more.......Thank you most sweet Jesus for loving me!

Favorite Verses

In the next few weeks I am going to post thoughts on my favorite verses located on the left side of this blog. I am sure you are all super excited to see those!!!!

joe

Remembering Grandma

My Grandma(Mom's Mom) died Saturday morning. She had been sick for 2 weeks. She lived in a nursing home in Nappanee, but had been relatively healthy up until then. Here are some of the good memories I have of her.

She was a good cook-homemade pot pie and beef stroganoff are my favorites of hers.
Easter Egg Hunts and Christmas at her house
She loved Avon!
I have never seen her drive
She told me she prayed for me and my kids every day "I don't remember all their names, but I pray for them" hee hee
Holidays and birthdays were a huge deal at their house- gifts were her love language!
She sponsored me and Amy going to Costa Rica
We always called her Grandma Clifford-that was my grandpa's name-she never minded-I think I would have!
She always had a neat and tidy house with elf orange pop in the fridge.
She loved to crochet, but her arthritis was so bad lately she couldn't

I love you Grandma and I 'll miss you - See you in Heaven (with your brand new healthy body!)

Movie Review-Twilight

OK, let me set the stage. A theatre full of 12-16 year old girls and a few moms thrown in for fun. Lots of giggling, talking and screaming. The movie starts and Edward the main character comes out- the theatre goes nuts! I have to admit it was fun to go and see what Amy has been talking about for weeks. Now, I haven't read the books, but I read lots of reviews before I would OK her to read the books. She has also given me a play by play of characters etc, so I was in the know. Otherwise I think someone just going to the movie with no background would have been lost. It was obviously low budget, I think the sequel(s) will be much better.
On a side note, I couldn't figure out why these girls were so in love with a fictional character in a book. They didn't know what he looked like, and for goodness sake, he is a vampire! The movie made it clear to me. Edward is a gentleman, yet a monster, who protects the one he loves above all else. He shows great restraint and discipline, but above all protects Bella always. What girl doesn't want that? It led to good discussion with Amy about our Heavenly Father and the parallel with him. If for nothing else, it was worth the $20 for that!

This is my Fathers World

Has anyone else been humming these words from church this weekend? While driving up north to visit my grandma in the hospital it was on WFRN, and then it was on a friends blog yesterday. God reminds me of songs so often. Here are the words:

This is my Father’s world, and to my listening ears
All nature sings, and round me rings the music of the spheres.
This is my Father’s world: I rest me in the thought
Of rocks and trees, of skies and seas;His hand the wonders wrought.
This is my Father’s world, the birds their carols raise,
The morning light, the lily white, declare their Maker’s praise.
This is my Father’s world: He shines in all that’s fair;
In the rustling grass I hear Him pass;He speaks to me everywhere.
This is my Father’s world. O let me ne’er forget
That though the wrong seems oft so strong, God is the ruler yet.
This is my Father’s world: the battle is not done:
Jesus Who died shall be satisfied,And earth and Heav’n be one.
This is my Father’s world, dreaming, I see His face.
I ope my eyes, and in glad surprise cry, “The Lord is in this place.”
This is my Father’s world, from the shining courts above,
The Beloved One, His Only Son,Came—a pledge of deathless love.
This is my Father’s world, should my heart be ever sad?
The lord is King—let the heavens ring. God reigns—let the earth be glad.
This is my Father’s world. Now closer to Heaven bound,
For dear to God is the earth Christ trod.No place but is holy ground.
This is my Father’s world. I walk a desert lone.
In a bush ablaze to my wondering gaze God makes His glory known.
This is my Father’s world, a wanderer I may roamWhate’er my lot,
it matters not,My heart is still at home.

Sticker Shock

I called IUPUI today to look into getting my Masters. omg! Not only was I already feeling too old, not smart enough, and just plain too busy and overwhelmed, but now I feel way too poor too. Praying for guidance and provision. I actually prayed today that if she didn't call me back (after the 2nd phone call) that must mean God doesn't want me to go back. I am pretty weak.

"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light." Matthew 11:28-30

Monday Menus

Wow, how boring. I haven't blogged in a week. Here are more menus. Hee hee.

Monday- No Amy. She got the day off, and so did I(from my "real" job).

Chicken and pineapple kabobs with cinnamon barbecue sauce

carrot and apple slaw

red smashed potatoes with cheese

These yummy recipes were from a magazine and were YUMMY! The kids liked them too, especially the chicken. Who would have thought to put cinnamon in bbq sauce(except Laura Ingalls for Almonzo- I know wayyy too much Little house on the Prairie trivia!!) So sad.

Tues.

Sausages

Pasta and veggies

Wednesday

Penne Pastawith mini meatballs

salad
french bread

Thursday

Chili(we didn't end up having this last week)

cornbread/ corn chips

Friday

pizza

Weekend

leftovers

Monday Menus

Monday Amy's day

tuna melt

mac and cheese

salad and carrots

bananas

Tuesday- Grandma and Grandpa Here for Veterans day Program at school

Lasagna

garlic bread

salad

dessert

wednesday

chicken wraps(new recipe)

applesauce

thursday

chili

cornbread

Friday

leftovers

Saturday

homemade pizza

Yes, I do only make one meal for the family and I don't only make what the kids All like. It takes trying something 1o times sometimes to like it. We always have something that everyone will eat, no one ever goes hungry. They may not eat a lot, but that's all they get for the night. They have to try everything before they can get up. Sounds mean, but we feel like it teaches them to appreciate the things they have, and not to be too picky. For instance, in Costa Rica, Amy tried EVERYTHING we ate. She amazed the adults, the other teens were super picky and lost weight. Even if she didn't like it, she tried it. She found out she liked guacamole(it was so good there!) Not to say that this works perfect, but it does help stay out of the rut of eating the same things all of the time. Works for us.

Friday Five

From Wilcox blog, I know its late, I had a long day yesterday!
Middles:

1. What marks the middle of your day? I guess lunch, but kind of , when the kids get home from school.

2. When was the last middle of the night phone call? Joe sometimes gets these from his clients who drive semi's. They forget what time zone they are in. A little annoying, and always scares me.

3.On what social, political, economic, or moral issue are you in the middle of the road? I am quite conservative on a lot of views, especially moral and social. Education is probably my middle of the road - good and bad for both!

4. How likely are you to give someone the middle finger? Not sure I have ever given someone "the finger". If I were, it would probably be in traffic, on my way to work.

5.When were you last caught in the middle of a disagreement that really had nothing to do with you? Like Sarah, I am caught in arguments that have nothing to do with me, or quite frankly, anything, on a daily basis with the kids. On a grown up level, I have been caught in the middle of patients and their families before on issues of driving and their health care- not a fun place to be. Especially for someone who doesn't really like conflict!

Politics

May God bless Barak Obama.

May Barak Obama seek the One true God, the Maker of the heavens and the earth.

May he humble himself to see that God and God alone is ruler of all the nations.

May he realize that this True God loves him unconditionally.

May he understand that with power comes responsibility and there is no greater source of power than God Almighty.

May Jehova Jireh, My Great Provider provide Barak Obama wisdom for things that he doesnt even know he needs.

May we all understand that we serve the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords who knows our fears and our failures. This Mighty God that we serve hears us at night, in the morning and during the day when we humble ourselves and cry out to Him.

May He increase our faith and our trust in Him and Him alone.

joe

Our little politician

We broke our rule and let the kids watch a little TV last night and this morning. We thought it was a good idea to let them watch history unfold. It was also Aaron's homework, to watch a little of the election coverage. Well, Annie got up and saw who had won the presidential election and didn't say a whole lot. Joe sent her upstairs to get dressed, I went in a few minutes later to check on her progress(she tends to be pokey). She was lying on her bed crying. I asked what was the matter, and she wouldn't tell me. I kept prying, no answers. I finally asked,"are you upset Obama won?" "yes" she wailed. I reassured that God was in control and we were not in any danger.(she had a discussion on the playground about an impending 9/11 if he was elected!) She said "I know, I just didn't want him to win." I kept trying to reassure her and I prayed with her to no avail. I finally left her to get dressed. After praying before getting on the bus, she looked up and said " can we move to Canada for 4 years?" What a kid? What does God have in store for her? I better watch it, I may be the mom of a politician someday!

Pretty pictures

You may see these in a Christmas card soming soon! which one do you like best? Vote now or forever hold your peace!

Halloween

Here are pics of the kids before going trick or treating. Amy-hippie, Aaron-Alphonso Soriano(Cubs player), Annie-Statue of Liberty, Andrew- Bob Sanders(Colts Player). Andrew is sure that he looks "just like" Bob Sanders. Now, Bob Sanders has black skin and dreadlocks. He was upset with me for not letting his hair grow so he could look more like him. Joe finally stated the obvious and said"But Andrew, Bob Sanders is black." He replied "Dad, nobody looks at skin color, only their hair." Sweet innocence, I hope he stays that way. He also doesn't like us calling people black, because they are really brown, he says. Too cute. We had a fun time, only went to our neighborhood, the Estridges(we are their only trick or treaters!), and a few houses when we dropped Amy off at a friends house. Joe and I have successfully picked out our favorites, and they have hidden the rest. The dog got a couple Reese cups, not bad, compared to Easter!

I voted!

Joe and I waited an hour and a half to vote. We did our civic duty. Luckily, we don't have to worry about getting persecuted when we leave the voting place, it is a true freedom we have. A very long line. When I picked up Andrew at school, there were few people at that polling place. My friend Linda didn't have to wait long either. I am going to try and post some pictures of Halloween, in another post. This is Annie's patriotic get up. Isn't she cute?

It is a beautiful day, one of the last of the season, so we are going to try and take some family pics outside after school.

Monday Menus

Monday-Amy's

Burgers on the grill(with Daddy's help)

Mac and cheese

salad

Tuesday

Tacos

Wednesday

Chicken Marsala

Pasta

green beans

Thursday

Chicken parmigiana

garlic bread

salad

Friday

Homemade Pizza

Weekend

Potato soup

I was sick this weekend and am now exhausted after working today, so I am hitting the hay early!

First, Here is a picture of Amy and friends at a recent bonfire. I thought it was a cool pic-looked like fun!

Politics

who am I voting for?????

I can get cynical, skeptical and analytical. Ask my wife, I can even do all 3 at once..... however I always seem to come back to who I trust.

Not who I trust with my wallet.

Not who I trust with my retirement savings.

Not who I trust with my insurance.

Not who I trust with my kids education.

Not who I trust with my career.

Not who I trust in a bailout.

Not who I trust in a war.

Not who I trust to make a good speech.

What I have learned in my short 39 years about politics is that all men are fallable and my God is sovereign. They can promise a lot in a series of 30 second commercials.

So I return to trust. I trust God and God alone. Men (including me) will fail. We will break promises. We will let people down. We will be shortsighted. We will overlook our own miscomings and enlarge others.

So I try to vote as knowledge and information allows. Who is going to use their position to make a difference in the way my Savior would approve? I know, that is very difficult question to answer. However, mine is only one vote and it is how I muck through the wonderful process.

"Oh God, once again I ask for your direction." Pray with us as Tuesday approaches.

Joe

Friday Five

This a link from my friend Sarah Wilcox's blog. Again, I would do that nifty link thing, but I don't know how. Look over at the side and click to get to her site.
1. Who frightens you: people at haunted houses. I don't like scary.
2. Who surprises you: my kids. They are always do things that surprise me and delight me.
3. Who calms you: Joe. He always knows what to say, ans how to say it to calm me down and give me peace. Ultimately it is directing me to the ultimate Peace giver!
4. Who inspires me: People who follow their passion. Like the Wilcox's. They moved to China to follow their passion-wow, not many people have the guts to do that. Inspiring and Brave, not safe!
5. Who admires you. Not sure about this one.

Voting

Derry Prenkert had a good post today about Christians and voting. If I knew how to do that nifty go to here thing I would do it. (BTW someone could always comment how to do that to me-just saying) We as Christians sometimes vote out of fear of who may get into office or who may not . I remember the election when Clinton looked like he was going to win. I felt sick, "what is going to happen to this world?" I thought. He seemed like such a weasel to me. (Hmm....) Anyway, I remember Joe reassuring me that God is control no matter what. I believed him and was reassured. As I have grown in my faith, I REALLY believe that and have a peace about elections now. God knows who will be elected, He cares for all those little babies who are killed every day. We must do our part- vote for who we think is the right candidate, based on our beliefs. Many men have given their lives for freedoms like this one- it should not be taken for granted. Yes, God is on the throne and will remain there. What a peace to know there is a constant.
On a lighter not- we survived the Clinton years!

Be Brave, Not Safe

This is the title of our new series at church. I love it. It talks of stepping out of our comfortable lives and being brave for Christ and His kingdom. Being brave is something so different for each of us. We have had guest speakers from all over come and speak. Last week, the speaker was from South Africa. The verse he started with was " Seek ye first the kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things will be added unto you." He made the point that the verse doesn't start out with all these things will be added unto you and then seek Him. Wow- I do that. I spend so much time running around "adding". I need to "Seek" Him before all.
My first order of business? Get back into the habit of praying first thing in the morning. I started setting my alarm early and praying before the kids get up. Its working now- I need accountability, that is why I am writing it here-eek! I have always waited until the kids were off to school, or in bed etc. Other things then get in the way.
It is my baby step. Many things to pray for these days. I may have to give up sleep to get them all in hee hee :)

Flu Shots

We all got flu shots yesterday. The whole lot of us. The kids were all complaining of sore arms this morning. I am not sure if it is because Mom gave them the shots or if they really were sore. Mine is only sore if you push on it. The only one to cry was Annie- the poor traumatized one. Two years of weekly allergy shots did a number on her. Her allergies are nonexistent now though.
Amy is sure that I punctured her muscle and that there is permanent damage- not that she is dramatic or anything.
Hopefully, no flu for the Bennett clan!

Christmas Shopping

I have been picking up gifts here and there for Christmas, to try and save some money. I have a lot done actually. I went to Borders, Family Christian Store and Hobby Lobby with coupons today. Lots of good sales too. I am not one for big crowds and lines, so buying ahead is the way to go for me. I can't list the gifts, because certain people may see this:) hee hee.

Chilly

Ok, I was REALLY, tempted to turn on the furnace this morning. We persevered and made it. I did turn on the space heater in the family room to take the chill off for a bit. We may not make it, which wouldn't be a big deal. Just silly!

Flannel sheets

I have a thing for flannel sheets and vellum blankets. I put them on all the beds yesterday. We all slept snuggly warm last night too. Joe and I have this thing where we don't turn the heat on until at least Nov. 1. Gets a little chilly in the morning, otherwise I harp "put a sweatshirt on", "grab a blanket". The reason we do this foolish thing you ask?

1. We are nothing if not cheap

2. We like silly games

3. It makes us all appreciate the warmth of our furnace when we do turn it on

4. I really hate the smell when you first turn on the furnace, and I like to prolong it as long as possible.

All of the above are correct.

Here are some pictures of the kids sheets and the boys cool matching quilts I told you about. (remember, the ones I got on clearance at Walmart?)

Brown County

Here is my first attempt at pictures on the blog. I hope it works. I got the pretty pic of brown county from the Internet, it wasn't as pretty in real life this time. Next week will be better. We had a lot of fun hiking the trails though. There is just something about being outside on those trails that does you good. The kids instantly get a long better. They fought like crazy the whole way there, they start hiking and laughing and it is amazing. It was chilly when we started at 945 am, but when we ended at 1245 we were sweating and our sweatshirts were off. Fun for all. I will show you a few pics, just 'cause I can!

Creed

Another favorite Rich Mullins song for you.
Creed
I believe in God the Father almighty Maker of Heaven and Maker of Earth And in Jesus Christ His only begotten Son, our Lord He was conceived by the Holy Spirit Born of the virgin Mary Suffered under Pontius Pilate He was crucified and dead and buried
CHORUS: And I believe what I believe Is what makes me what I am I did not make it, no it is making me It is the very truth of God and not The invention of any man
I believe that He who suffered Was crucified, buried, and dead He descended into hell and On the third day, rose again He ascended into Heaven where He sits at God's mighty right hand I believe that He's returning to Judge the quick and the dead Of the sons of men
CHORUS
I believe it, I believe it I believe it I believe it, I believe it
I believe in God the Father almighty Maker of Heaven and Maker of Earth And in Jesus Christ His only begotten Son, Our Lord I believe in the Holy Spirit One Holy Church, the communion of Saints The forgiveness of sin I believe in the resurrection I believe in a life that never ends
CHORUS
I believe it, I believe I believe it, I believe
You can watch the video and hear him sing it on youtube.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aHWoDwxyKUE

Fall Break

No menus this week. Amy made pigs in a blanket last night and I am making potato soup tonight. We start our fall break tomorrow night by taking our niece Tori out for her 19th birthday. I remember standing in my dorm room at Purdue as a freshman packing up a gift for Tori when she was born. Seems like yesterday. Really scary thought, I remember what the gift was. I am so weird. Anyway, I can't believe she is 19! She is at Indiana University-ughh! jk of course. We are then staying in a hotel, not camping as previously posted. We talked Daddy into it. It would be out of the way, waste gas, and I got a deal on priceline. Free breakfast too. Yippee! We will then hike at Brown County state park all day , have a picnic lunch and enjoy the beautiful scenery. We had fun hiking last year. Aaron has requested we try the "Rugged" coarse this year. We will see if Mommy survives it. I have to work on Friday, so we will be back Thursday evening.

Pendleton

Last Easter (2007) we had an amazing service at our church. Pastor Dave really challenged us to "get in the game" and make a difference. Without recalling the title or even the message that he spoke I felt God move in my heart to challenge me in a distinct way.

To use basketball to make an impact on those less fortunate or who have made poor choices. While playing ball in college we use to in the fall travel to Pendleton and Michigan City to play against the inmates. As a 20 year old, I knew this was a bit abnormal however I really enjoyed each experience. Why couldnt we as a church play ball over in Pendleton again? We have a very popular basketball league and bunch of guys that get together on Monday nights. To make a long story short... we have went into the Prison I think 5 times now to play against the inmates. Remind me to share sometime how God brought this together... it is an encouraging story.

We are going in again today, but today is different. Ray (the rec leader at the prison) is a believer in Christ. He specifically asked me to prepare and share a devotional with his team. Now, those of you that know me understand that I have done this type of thing a lot in the past. However, not as much in the last 5 years. Lots of reasons and a few excuses. Nevertheless, pray for me as we visit.

Halloween costumes

Here is the short list of what the kids want to dress up for:
Amy: a nerd or Sarah Palin(I vote for Sarah Palin, her Dad says she can dress normally for the nerd)
Aaron: some sports personality
Ann: the statue of liberty(I need some prayer for this one)she is on some patriotic kick- go Annie.
Andrew: Bob Sanders( He has a uniform with no number, but no dredlocks)

Here is what I have left in the dressup trunk: elephant, lamb, little red riding hood, mad scientist, clown, scarecrow, indian, knight, butterfly, ladybug, and I think a few more. Call if you would like to borrow one.

Monday Menus

Monday-Amy's Day
Chicken Parmigiana
mashed potatoes
garlic bread
carrots

Tuesday
Baked chicken
steamed vegetables
rice

Wednesday
Beef stroganoff Casserole
green beans
homemade applesauce

Thursday
Beef Stew in crock pot
bread and butter

Friday
pizza
Saturday
potato soup
Sunday
meatball subs
pumpkin roll

Hold me Jesus

The words of this song go through my mind frequently. There they were this morning so I thought I would share them. Rich Mullins was very instrumental in my early Christian walk. I am so very affected by music and their lyrics. He always wrote straight to the heart and straight from scripture. God took him way to early if you ask me.
My favorite line from the song is " I'd rather fight You for something
I don't really want
Than to take what You give that I need "That is so true of me. I try and remember this and let go and let God give what I need instead of what I want.
Anyone out there have a favorite Rich Mullins song?


Hold Me Jesus


Well, sometimes my life
Just don't make sense at all
When the mountains look so big
And my faith just seems so small

CHORUS:
So hold me Jesus, 'cause I'm shaking like a leaf
You have been King of my glory
Won't You be my Prince of Peace

And I wake up in the night and feel the dark
It's so hot inside my soul
I swear there must be blisters on my heart

CHORUS

Surrender don't come natural to me
I'd rather fight You for something
I don't really want
Than to take what You give that I need
And I've beat my head against so many walls
Now I'm falling down, I'm falling on my knees

And this Salvation Army band
Is playing this hymn
And Your grace rings out so deep
It makes my resistance seem so thin

CHORUS

You have been King of my glory
Won't You be my Prince of Peace

Overheard

I was on the computer last night, checking email, and could hear Ann and Andrew in the shower together. Yes, they still love to shower and take baths together, they play with shaving cream and have contests to see who can hold their breath the longest etc. I digress. I could hear them singing at the top of their lungs. "What were they singing" you ask? The National Anthem. I think we watch too much sports. Actually Annie is doing a patriotic program for the 3rd grade on veterans day and is so pumped about it. She is constantly singing patriotic songs around the house, pretty cute, especially when she gets the words wrong.

You know your short when....

You pull out jeans from the winter bin and say to yourself " how did these capris get in here." Those aren't capri's your legs are just that short silly!

I finished a book!

It isn't even one from the list! I keep a book in the car to read while I wait at practices and in line to pick up Andrew at Kindergarten. I am nothing if not efficient!
The title: "Preparing him for the other woman: a mothers guide to raising her son to love a wife and lead a family" by Sheri Rose Shepherd
http://www.hisprincess.com/Preparing_Him_for_the_Other_Woman_s.jpg
Very good book, for moms of boys of course. Small, quick read. Took me months of course though! hee hee. I have a feeling I will refer to it for years to come.

Heavy Heart

I have a heavy heart today. I heard of two deaths yesterday. One, a 57 year old friend, a nurse I used to work with in Wakarusa. She died after a 3 year battle with breast cancer. What a brutal disease. She was so full of life, a funny, funny lady. She has been a school nurse for years and really just loved children. Her legacy in their lives will live on. She was the mom of 5 kids two of which are still in high school.
And then, I heard Lisa Lengacher died very unexpectedly yesterday. She was 39 with 2 teen girls. Her daughter came home for lunch and found her. They think she may have had an aneurysm. How horrible. I just can't imagine, and keep thinking of their poor families. They are believers, but we know their grief is overwhelming.

Our family knows, even when expected, it hurts so very much to lose someone you love. Time helps you deal with it, but the pain never goes away. It has been 10 years since Jane died and I cry as I write this. I miss her so. God has taught us so much in her life and in her death, as these families will come to learn. The pain is still so fresh now.

Have faith, our God knows the future, and He works it all out. Thank you God.
" For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord,plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."Jeremiah 29:11
God doesn't promise there won't be pain, but He does promise He will see us through.

Monday Menus

Monday-Amys day
Tuna melts
Caesar salad
grapes

Tuesday
Spaghetti w/ turkey meatballs
garlic bread
salad

Wednesday
French dip sandwiches au jus(we went out to dinner last week)
green beans
strawberries

thursday
Lemon chicken
rice
broccoli
apples

friday
pizza

Saturday
chili
Sunday
Soups

cubs

I am officially mourning.... so here are my only comments on the Cubs playoff performance...

disgusting
regrettable
frustrating
discouraging
hopeless
101 years


however.....

Hope springs eternal.....next year is going to be the year!!!!

Harden is back with big Z and Lilly and hopefully Demps....

all is well...

Joe

Amy's New Blog

Hello Everyone! Its Amy. Im here to tell you that I have made my own Blog. It is not as "familyish" as this one is. Its more about my life. Ex- School, Homework, Cubs, Retreat..etc, etc. SO, you don't have to look at it, just if you want to. I think its absolutly AWESOME. But ya know, thats just me.

sisterdaughterfriend.blogspot.com

Thats it. Just go there and VWOILA!! Your at my blog!

Amy

Monday Menus

My friend Stacie gave me an idea to post my weekly menus. I make out menus for the week to save time, money and whining by the kids and me. When we all know what we are eating, life seems better somehow. We picked apples, so they are a part of a lot of meals right now. I am working more than usual so a lot of the meals are in the crock pot or made ahead.
Monday-Amy's day
Pigs in a blanket
Mac and cheese
Caesar salad
apples

Tuesday
Tacos with all the fixings (meat made ahead)
salad or shells

Wednesday
Chicken and Rice
Steamed Broccoli
Apples

Thursday
Chili (meat made ahead)
cornbread

Friday
French Dip sandwiches
with au jus
fruits and vegetables

Funnest

"That was my funnest birthday ever, mom". Worth all the work. 6 busy little boys.

7 and 25

7 is the number of wins which are needed by the cubs over the next 2 weeks (starting on October 1st) in order to reach the World Series.

I am 22. Probably asked for fire insurance many times growing up in Community Gospel Church in Bremen Indiana. However a more appropriate life changing volitional choice by God's grace was done during the summer of 1986. So that would make me 22 as well.

I would think those 22 years will help me deal with these next 7 victories.... Atleast I hope so!

Go CUBBIES

joe

22

I am on a little bit of a numbers kick today. Janelle Prenkert was talking on her blog about the date she bacame a believer in Christ. Mine was August 14th 1986. Wow, I am 22. I think I should be more mature than I am. Can't use the excuse that I am a new Christian anymore, not that I have for long time. How old are you?

9

The number of books I have unfinished on my nightstand. It is very sad. I have a hard time finishing a book. I really want to, I really NEED to. Here they are:
Encouragement by Beth Moore
Praying Gods Word by Beth Moore
At First Sight by Nicholas Sparks
Living What you Believe(bible study)
I'm glad Im a mom by Jill Savage
My Hearts at Home by Jill Savage
Shepherding a Child's heart by Tedd Tripp
Surviving the Teenage Hormone Takeover by Nisha Jackson
Jerry Bakers Terrific Garden Tonics
This is kind of an eclectic group of books, made me giggle to read them out loud!

6

My baby boy, Andrew, turned 6 on tuesday. He told me I can't call him my baby boy any more since he is 6 now. I promptly told him he will always be my baby boy. That led to a math lesson of addition by 32. "when I am 80 you will be how old?" "Dead" I said. Anyway, he had a good day and he is having friends over tomorrow for a little party. He is very excited.
As is tradition in the Bennett abode, the birthday child gets to choose the evening meal. He chose chicken parmigian, salad, garlic bread and raspberries. We had leftover chocolate cake from celebrating with Grandma and Grandpa Reaker on Sunday. He is having a baseball cake for his party tomorrow, and a pinata.

Istep...and other random things

As most of you know, This week and last week was ISTEP week!!! YIPPEE. Today was my last day of Istep, but not the last day for my brothers and sisters or for the 8th graders. HA. Anyways, Istep is the Indiana state test(and I have no idea what the E and P stand for. hee hee.)

My dad just walked in and read that and he was all like "The E and P stands for educational program." and I was like "Wow dad. You are such a nerd." :D :D

OMG. Ok, I brought my phone charger to my friends house when she was having her birthday party, right? Well I accidently lost it there. She looked and looked but its not in her house, so someone accidently took it. SIGH. Oh well. We learned my Dad's car charger works on mine. Which is good news!

Ok, I havta go get ready for bed. YAWNN.. Good Night!

Amy <3

Cubs

Its the first time the cubs have won the division in two consecutive years since 1907 and 1908. That's right that is also the last time they won the world series. The stars are lining up..... This could be the year.

If I were manager here is my rotation:
Zambrano in Game 1. Harden in Game 2.

if we win both games then go with Lilly for game 3. If we lose one or both then go with Dempster for game 3.

Playoffs begin Oct. 1st. I did sign up for the OUTSIDE chance of getting playoff tickets.

Go CUBBIES!!!!!

Joe

Adoption

Last night we met up with our Costa Rica group again. We have a fun group. One of the Missionaries was in town and we had dinner with him. He is in charge of the Childrens homes. They don't call them orphanages, because most of them are not truly orphans. He gave us an update on the project and on the children. 2 of the children we played with and that Amy and I taught got adopted by a couple in Germany. They are 6 and 7 years old. He had pictures of them with their "mommy and daddy". My heart rejoices for them. He said there was an instant bond and the kids were so happy. The family was unable to have kids on their own and had been working with the country for a few years. There are pictures of these kids in our scrapbook.
I thought of Dave and Shelly and baby Jessa and what they had just went through in China. It made me cry to think that this family had probably the same fears and apprehensions they had. But we were there and saw how these kids were loved with the love of Jesus and taught about Him. They were fed and well taken care of and loved. Their house parents miss them so much, he said.
God never forgot about them, even in Costa Rica. He took care of them, and continues to. Pray for Anita and Chris.
They were left behind by parents who couldn't or wouldn't take care of them.
But, He died for them, and loves them unconditionally.
What a great God we serve.

I need to defend myself

I am not convinced they will blow it. I am just a realist(sp). In the past they have gotten so close and then choked. Don't get me wrong, I have been a Cubs fan as long as my dear husband. Not many 12 year old girls take their friends to a Cubs game for her birthday, but I did. (it was a blast too!) I can honestly say I have never hit the TV with a wiffle ball bat though.
I also think Kerry Wood is overrated. If you are going to get paid that much money, strike someone out for heavens sake! That's as mean as I am going to get, I am sure he tries very hard, and his mother is very proud of him.
I hope they make it to the World series and Joe WINS Tickets so we can eat that month-hee hee!
Me and Amy's favorite T-shirt when were at Wrigley this summer said "World Champs'07" on the front, then on the back it says" who cares if it was 1907" That makes me laugh every time.

Way to go Zambrano!

destiny and cubs

rarely are the words "destiny" and "cubs" used in the same sentence. Usually the words frustrating, futility and failures are used to describe my beloved Cubs.

However... 2008 MIGHT be different...


Zambrano throws the first "no-no" which means no-hitter since '72...

Tia is convinced they will blow it eventually.. especially if they have to rely on Kerry Wood, "Why doesnt he just strike them out?" is what she asks and expects.

Notwithstanding my anger bursts as a kid at their lack of success (yes mom I did use a whiffle ball bat on the t.v. a couple of times...I promise I never broke anything!) I still believe in my cubbies.

GOOOOO CUBBBBBBBIEEEESSSSs......

At one point in my life I would have probably taken on a 2nd mortgage for a world series ticket. Not anymore, I have grown up and have different priorities but a trip to wrigleyville during a World Series game might be in my future. A good compromise.

Joe

Be thou my vision

This is my favorite hymn. For some reason, God has blessed me with hearing it a lot lately. I count that as a blessing, I feel like God does that just for me , because He loves me so. He shows me He loves me in lots of little ways too, especially in nature. He doesn't have to, He is the embodiment of love. He does though, because I need to see it, feel it, know it. My saviour loves me, just the way I am.
I hummed this song to the kids when they were babies. It was the only song that would really calm them down. Now, when I hum it when they are restless, they know what I am up too. It is cute, when Ann hears it she says " this is our song Mom". I can live with that.

Be thou My Vision
Be thou my vision, O Lord of my heart
Naught be all else to me save that thou art
Thou my best thought by day or by night
Waking or sleeping thy presence my light.
Be thou my wisdom, thou my true word
I ever with thee, thou with me, Lord
Thou my great Father, I thy true Son
Thou in me dwelling, and I with thee one.

Be thou my battle shield, sword for the fight
Be thou my dignity, thou my delight
Thou my soul's shelter, thou my high tower
Raise thou me heavenward, O power of my power.

Riches I heed not, nor man's empty praise
Thou mine inheritance, now and always
Thou and thou only, first in my heart
High King of heaven, my treasure thou art.

High King of heaven, after victory won
May I reach heaven's joys, O bright heaven's sun
Heart of my own heart, whatever befall
Still be my vision, O ruler of all.

Shameless

If any of you out there are in desperate need of some wrapping paper for ANY occasion, or chocolates, we are the house for you. Four kiddos selling the stuff. I want to know the connection between, wrapping paper and chocolates, why are they in the same catalog? Anyway, Andrew goes to school half day, he is the first one home. You know where this is going. He is my entrepreneurial one, and has already hit the neighborhood and called some of our friends. I have a feeling there will be a war when Aaron gets home. The girls want to sell the minimum to get the prize. My boys on the other hand are sure they can be top seller and win the ipod. I think God instills in them the provider role and that competitive spirit. Let us know if you have a gift wrap emergency in the next 2 weeks!

PureNRG

Is it so wrong for a 38 year old woman to enjoy dancing around the house while cleaning to this kids CD? Sad I know. Disturbing image as well. Sorry.

sports of all sorts (summary)

it was not one of those "golden" weekends...

Westfield's high school football team lost 33 to 21.

Aarons soccer team was winning 3-1 with about 15 minutes to play... then lost 4-3. However, Aaron scored his first goal of the season.

Notre Dame played poorly and barely beat San Diego State.

The Cubs were winning 3-1 in the bottom of the ninth and then Kerry Wood comes in and gives up 3 earned runs so they lose 4-3.

The colts looked horrible in a humiliating defeat to the hated bears.

ahhh well.... next weekend more of the same.

joe

sports of all sorts

Here is our weekend line-up:

Friday night: Aaron, Andrew and myself to local high school football game.

Saturday: Aaron soccer game in west lafayette 1:30. Notre Dame football at 3:30.. go irish!!!!

Sunday: Family to Chicago vs. Cincy Reds baseball game in Cincinatti at 1:15pm. Colts vs. Bears (on tv) Sunday night football.

If Aaron could fit tennis and the girls swimming in during this weekend.. they would.

I love this kind of "busy".... I truly do.

joe

Cookie Dough

Well, I am counting calories. I haven't done that one in a while. I figure, I have done most everything else, why not this one again. Or like Leann says, "Push myself away from the table". Or what my friend Lindsay at work advised "sew my lips shut, for more than one reason". So sweet, that one. Anyway, so I was counting those calories out today and I got to the chocolate chip cookie dough I ate. I was making cookies for my friends the Watts , who will be coming home from China soon. So, here is the dilemma. Does the cookie dough count? I was doing something nice, right? Well a cookie should count, but cookie dough? I know I know it can't count its not in my book, its not really a cookie yet! I'm sticking with that one. I wonder why I don't lose weight?hmmmmm.

St. Louis

For those of you who have not visited the show me state, it is quite an enjoyable experience. Seeing Buddy, Leann and Danny was, of course, the highlight. Their new rental home is nice, in a nice neighborhood, about 20 minutes from downtown St. Louis. They are always the most gracious of hosts. I am reminded once again why we do not have cable television. We would all have to pry ourselves away, or maybe just show some discipline.

We first visited the Arch. We even talked Uncle Buddy into going up with us. The kids did great. It was very busy, a holiday weekend and a rival footbal game in town. We hung out by the Mississsippi, had a snack and played some football. It was a beautiful night, fun with the family. Had pizza when we got back.
Joe and Buddy got up and played in a golf scramble while we relaxed at home, watched tv and walked the dog. We then went to the Science Museum. It was free, and it was very cool. Well worth the trip. All of the kids liked it. It was very interactive and educational. We came home and had a cookout and played around the house some more.
Monday we got up and Joe and Buddy played tennis and the kids played at the park with Aunt Leann. I stayed home with Amy. Very relaxing weekend.
For anyone looking for a cheap vacation, try St. Louis. Many free attrations, not too far from home. Just a nice city.
Aaron wrote a paper on it for school this week, precious.

racoon

11 and counting.... and I think this was the biggest one by far... close to 30 lbs I am guessing.

We are off to st. louis to visit with my brother and do the ARCH etc...

Have a great Labor Day weekend.

joe

school sweet school part 2

We have 3 sick kids. Amy with a sinus infection, ear ache and general grouchies. Andrew with a fever, headache and sore throat(negative strep). Aaron with a sore throat and general orneriness. Annie feels fine, hopefully she stays that way. I hope we get more sleep tonight.
Last night Andrew was my clock "it's 4:20 mom, it's 4:22 mom, look it's 4:44 mom!" UGH! Motrin kick in finally I thought. It was a long day at work. Everyone is in bed now though, and I am headed there soon.
On top of it all, we caught another raccoon.

School sweet School (Not)

Hey all! Whats up??? Just wanted to check in with ya! I started school on August 13th, 2008. I do not like that date. As some of you know, I was separated from all my friends.. sad, i know. Anyways, I'll get through it. I'm really bored in the classes because its all review. In math, we have homework everyday. Blah... I'm just not a school person. Some people wake up in the morning, hop outta bed and say "YES!!!! ANOTHER DAY OF SCHOOL!!!". That is definitely not me. Sounds more like my brother. I wake up in the morning, 6am to be exact, try to sleep for a few more minutes and then, unhappily, drag myself to the bathroom to get ready. Not a terrific start on a new day. If I were president I would make all schools start AFTER it becomes light outside. Not before. Or in between. After.

When I get to heaven I'm going to ask him, "Why weren't we all born smart?? So we didn't have to go to school??" Of course when I said this to my mom and dad they said, "But then you wouldn't of met you friends!!" So I added, "..and go to a social school where we have topics to talk about. And all day we just play with our friends instead of work! And when we graduate social school then we start jobs." Makes sense to me. Agreed???

But, as luck would have it, that didn't happen. I wasn't born a human genius sadly. Oh well. We'll have to see if I can survive the next 5 years of Middle School and High School. and then 4+ years of college...sighhh...... only 9-10+ years before I am officially done with school. But then, of course, there's jobs. Sighh...

Well, I with ttyl!!!!l ('talk to ya later' for those of you that don't know texting lingo)

Amy<3

Aaron's school shopping

Here is Aaron's school shopping strategy.
Rearrange T-shirt drawer. "I forgot I had that one"
Saves me lots of money, he is happy. Win win.
Really, You buy the kid a new pair of shoes every few months and he is good to go. Low maintenance. Now my girls on the other hand.... we are off to old navy for $7 jean day.

Doctors appointment

All went well. Better than we expected. Aaron did great, joked around a lot. He had a ultrasound yesterday, so we won't find out those results until monday and then see the doc on a annual basis-yeah. No surgery. Definite answered prayer!

While the husbands away...

I don't know why but when Joe is out of town I get so much done. He went up to a cubs game with his friend Brad Mason. They got free tickets, great seats. Lucky ducks.
I re arranged the boys room. We now no longer have bunk beds, but two beds in their room. I painted the closet and took the doors off and put Andrews dresser inside. While at wal mart today I found (on clearance-my heart rejoiced!) a boys bedding line with madras plaid and everything that matched it. So I got canvas totes for the closet and bedding. I made a valance from a set of shams too! Andrew even got one of those tents for the bed. He is so stoked about it."I am so lucky Mom" "Don't tell Dad where I am tonight". Aaron even likes it. Now to keep it clean.
After I got the kids to bed I finished the laundry(a day late I might add) and cleaned the carpets. They were quite gross. Maybe they will stay semi clean for a few days before the lovely dark spots reappear. Could be worse.
BTW I cleaned the office out this morning! hee hee

Ouch!

I got my crown yesterday, I wish it was on my head and not on my tooth. I also had a cavity filled at the same time. It has been a while since I have had dental work done. Ouch. It still hurts today, hurts the pocketbook too. It could be worse, at least we have dental insurance, and I still have teeth!
Joe's big brother gave us a weight set when they moved so we have been lifting on that. Ouch, sore muscles. I am sure we will be buff the next time you see us Reeds!
On a more serious note, please pray for our friends the Watts. Their new baby girl, Jessa, they are adopting from China was moved to an orphanage yesterday and she is very sad. She has always lived with a foster family and knows nothing else, she is 16months old, I think. How sad for Jessa and for the Watts too.
Aaron's appointment is tomorrow too.

Beautiful Weekend/ Busy Week

1. 3 Soccer games- this is our first foray into travel soccer. Aaron's team lost 2 and tied 1 this weekend. Competition was much stiffer than rec. Fun to watch though. I never thought I would like soccer as much as I do. Ann and Aandrew's seasons don't start until after labor day. Amy isn't playing, it went co ed for her age group and she opted not to play with the boys.

2. Family reunion in Bremen- My Dads family is fun to be with. The reunion is at my cousins house who has a pool and just a beautiful house for entertaining. They are always very gracious to let us have it there. The kids love it, and get to play with their cousins. Sad too though, the economy is so much more bleek up there. With factories closing, so many of my relatives are losing jobs they have had for 20-30 years. One cousin told me of marital trouble- made my heart sad. We surprised friends of ours for a quick visit on the way home. Always nice to see the Masons.

3. Joe is at Prison playing basketball with the inmates today. He sacrifices a Sunday a month for their pleasure(he loves to play too ;) It is a good ministry and I am thankful he listened and obeyed when God nudged at his heart to start this. It is as beneficial to the players from our church as those at the prison! "A grateful heart is good medicine" to see it in action is good for anyone.

4. First week of school went well. I am still not quiet into the swing of things yet. Everyone loves their teachers, we are blessed with a good school. Andrew said today that he doesn't ever want to move because he wants his kids to go to Carey Ridge Elementary. So cute. Amy is adjusting to middle school.

5.I colored my hair dark. I would say "back" to my original color, but it has gotten darker after each pregnancy. Needless to say it is darker than it ever was before. I am tired of coloring it. My husband always liked it lighter(I guess it was light when we met 20 years ago), but I didn't consult him. I am trying to simplify. Don't be shocked when you see me. :)

6. Busy week ahead. Soccer practices, baseball try-outs, doctor appointment, I get a crown(I wish it was on my head and not on my tooth), I go back to work after a 3 week break :(

Please pray for Aaron's doctors appointment, it is of a sensitive matter, but could be serious.

This is my third attempt to publish this post. For some reason the computer doesn't like it, I hope you do!

Quote of the Day

This was actually on Sunday. We went to the Indiana State Fair, showed the kids all of the animals and such. We were "petting" a huge steer, when Andrew asked if it was a dairy cow. I answered "No". He said " What is it for if it doesn't give us milk?" I answered " hamburgers, steaks, roasts." Annie quickly said" Mom quiet, he will hear you." meaning the steer of course.

Things I loved about Costa Rica

It seems my computer does not like long blogs, so I am doing a bunch of small ones.

1. The landscape- the mountains, flowers,trees, rainforest,etc were just magnificent. I would be working on the project and look up to see us surrounded by mountains and just thank God for His creation.
2. The weather- The weather was in the 70's everyday. It was their winter (rainy) season while we were there. It rained most afternoons, but not usually for long. The sun was hot and strong, but there was always a breeze and we all wore lots of sunscreen. It got down in the high 60's at night. Perfect.
3. The people- most people we came in contact with at the project were kind and had beautiful smiles. They were patient with us and truly appreciated us. The loved God with a Faith I have never seen before.
4. Music- I fell in love with their music and loved worshipping with them. They sent home a CD with us, I love it.
5. Tico time- the people of Costa Rica are known as Tico's. We are Gringos. Ticos are generally 15 minutes late for everything and very laid back- I fit right in.
6.Food- I never thought I would like beans and rice for 3 meals a day, but I did. The food was really good. Their fruits (which we can't get here) were really yummy. I loved their tea(or te) every morning too.
7. Amy would say "chike blak's" a cookie she ate everyday at break at the work site. We brought some home for her small group at church.

Things I love about the USA

1. Noise ordinances- Costa Rica is SOO loud, all night long. Dogs bark all night, car alarms etc. very inconsiderate if you ask me.
2. Emissions laws- The car exhaust was horrible, almost sickening. With gas at $8 a gallon there, you would think there wouldn't be many cars, but there are. Lots of buses, and motorcycles too.
3. Chocolate- No one does rich desserts like we do. No Hershey bars even(or hersheyo if you use my spanglish:)
4. English language- I have a new understanding for non English speaking persons- so hard. I am so lame too, why did I take French? When I go back I want to know more Spanish. My spanglish just didn't cut it.
5.Flushing toilet paper- The septic system in Costa Rica does not allow toilet paper, you must throw it in the trash. Hard habit to break- enough said.
6. Right now I love the Olympics- so much fun to watch. I love amateur sports in general, so this is just great for me. These kids work so hard.
7. Safety- a general feeling a safety on the streets especially. We couldn't travel even to the store down the street without a male escort. Regulations on the water slides and so forth were lacking as well. I take these regulations for granted so much in the US.

First Day

I surprised myself and was quite sad today dropping my baby boy off at kindergarten. I was remembering holding him as a baby getting the other kids ready for school, seems like yesterday. Seems like yesterday too that he was the one playing in the classroom while the other kids were going to school, now its his turn. He did great, he has Mrs. Hoard, the same teacher Amy and Ann had. We love her. I left the school and headed to the grocery store by myself and thought, "this is great" and then I got sad. No one to share Starbucks with, get a cookie for. My buddy I share so much with has grown up. Granted, the trip took much less time and I spent less money, so that is a plus. I picked him up and he did great. We laid down for a nap, I slept he rested (hee hee). Now we wait for Amy to get home first. The first day of 7Th grade in a new building. She was quite nervous. Praying for good, christian, friends in her classes or lunch period. Then Aaron and Ann will be home last. We instituted a new rule this school year. No TV on school days. We will see how this will go over. Aaron will struggle tonight, he LOVES the Olympics(as do I, that is why I needed the nap!).

stuff

School starts tomorrow.

Tia wrote a big blog post and computer froze before she could post.

Pendleton this Sunday.

Soccer tournament this weekend.

Family reunion in Bremen on Saturday.

oh yeah and work.

joe

Words can't describe

I have been milling over in my mind what all I wanted to write and can't quite put it into words. One blog wouldn't be enough, so I will try to decribe the trip in a few blogs.

Amy and I had a great time and would recommend to anyone to go on a short term trip. Ours was so meaningful and yet we had such a good time, almost vacation like. We helped out at Project Abraham for 4 days, doing light construction work and working with the kids at the daycare and orphanage 2 mornings. We went on a "feeding" at Christ in the City, in San Jose. This trip has left an indelible print in my mind of the hungry and hurting. I cried as I saw women abused and scarred, with little hope. The hungry children running to our bus to get food. Smiling faces on some of the kids, living in filth. Sad, hollow faces on some of the kids who have endured who knows what.
We worshipped with the church at the project twice, amazing is all I can say. I loved it and can see me going back. It is the first time I have even considered doing something full time. Not anytime soon, but I am at least open to it now. Whatever God wants of me.

days

They are home and we have been to chicago and back... Cubs won 11-4. Mark Derosa hit a grand slam.. it was awesome.

Ive really enjoyed talking about Costa Rica with Tia and Amy. God is alive and active not just here in America.

I hope you all are looking forward to hearing about their trip because they have some truly incredible stories.

joe

We are home

Got home safely. More to come soon.

day 7 and 8 (weekend)

We have had a good couple of days. We ate well and everyone actually had a shower.

I resealed the driveway with blacktop and I have blisters with a sore back.

We went to the Hauser's last night for their daughter Lucy 3rd birthday party. They had every type of ice cream and topping you could want... it was yummy. They had a bounce house and a badminton net set up. The kids (+ haley) had a great time.

Today the 4 bennetts (counting Haley) put on a "talent show" for the neighborhood. They went door to door and invited all of the neighbors for the 5pm show. They ended up having 8 people present. Sold concessions for a quarter which consisted of cheeze its and lemonade. I thought Tia would have enjoyed it a lot.

Church last night was good. They are focusing on Evangelism to match the opening of their new auditorium. It was good to hear stories of life change and redemption. We serve a God who is alive and active.

We (Tia and I) love to hear stories of God's grace in people's lives not the least of which our own.

They return tomorrow... YEAH!!!!!

God Bless,
joe

Day 6

Bittersweet day. Tia and Amy bought a phone card to call home. They called while I was at work so I missed it, then they called again and we actually got to talk for about 15 minutes. Wonderful conversation.

I cried.

Not sure why.... I miss her but we have been doing fine....but if you dont know this about me... whenever there is a "hallmark" commercial... I am shedding a tear. So I can get choked up pretty easily.

I think it was the combination of seeing God at work in my wife and my daughter and missing them. Not that I am a big tough guy but I do like to think I provide protection for my family. Well when they are in Costa Rica I have turn that duty over to my Savior.

So I am off downstairs to play WII... our neighbor Haley who is basically a member of the bennett (7) clan brought hers over for us all to enjoy.

God bless all and pray for me, my wife and our family if you think of it.
thanks
Joe

day 5

Wendy's.... yep.... even though the documentary "super size me" was enlightening.... we dominated Wendy's for dinner.

then we spent $50 bucks at Kroger. Bread, doughnuts, milk, cookies (double stuff oreos variety..yumm), yogurt, waffles, and birthday cards... Queen B's birthday is next wednesday. Debated on the chili cheese corn chips........ but they didnt make the cut.

Kids are worn out! In bed and lights out by 9pm. That is typical for the school year but usually closer to 9:30 or 10 during the summer.

One thing about being a single parent....I am in need of conversation that does not consist of what we are having for dinner or what is off limits for snacks. Thanks to our friend Linda for taking Andrew to the park and then back to her house today I was able to get a few hours worth of uninterrupted work done. It was enjoyable!

4 days left.. they return on Monday evening around 6:38 *Smile*

joe

day 4

great day with only ONE meltdown and it wasnt by me.

breakfast, lunch(for andrew only) and dinner(chicken parmesian from a box, left over ceasar salad and green beans) were all served on time.

Annie started crying about 8pm and didnt stop till about 9:30. She misses her mom and no matter how much Dad loves on her... its not the same. She whimpered all the way before, during and after taking a shower.... Chalk it up to missing her mom and being extra tired.

As we try to resemble the cleaver family(sarcasm!)...aaron so wanted to MOCK his younger sister for crying as she was getting out of the shower and into her jammies.....I said, "go tell her you miss your mom too and it will be ok." so he did and Annie shouted, "I DONT CARE!!!!"... for those of you that know Annie she can scream with the best of them. Aaron felt he should have went ahead and mocked her... Probably would have gotten a similar response....aaahhhh the joys of parenting.

We took a bike ride to cool creek park. Still finding it to be refreshing and rewarding. And thankfully.....not life threatening.

I completed my task list from yesterday with one exception... the front door springy thingy. I know I know.. I only had 3 things on the list..... well 2 were accomplished... .667 a very respectable batting average no matter what level you are playing. *SMILE*

joe

day 3

laundry day didnt win.. the bennetts minus 2 did!!!! TAKE that domestic chores, you thought you could win without our queen (tia) and our princess (amy) but you were wrong. I am Mr. Mom hear me ROAR!!!!!!

dinner got served at 6 sharp! Including lasagna (from a box), ceasar salad (pre-packaged)and strawberries (already cut/sliced). Nevertheless, it was yummy and dishwasher was loaded and ran while we went to Basketball at 6:30.

We then went to BW3's for chips and queso and CUBBIES...Kiddos had a lot of fun.

to do list for tomorrow.. (now I see why my wife has a love affair with LISTS)...1.. fix front door springy thingy...2...put away dishes and vacuum....3...Pray for my family (have to put this on the list otherwise it might not count)...thats enough for me.... I like magageable lists.... ones I actually can complete. *SMILE*

Single Moms....including my mother and my sister.... wow. How did you do it all those years? Cleaning, cooking, parenting and working? Suffice it to say, God is teaching me a lot and one of those lessons is an appreciation for what Single Parents experience on a daily basis. Keep em coming God... I need a lot of teaching... It seems the older I get the more I realize how much I need to be taught!

Tia emailed again today and said they are all falling in love with the kids. Amy is doing well and really likes the food and the comradarie with the other team members from our church.

gnight.
joe