Tuesday, May 20, 2008

A Blessing

To the left of this post Joe has started a list of 5 ways to Bless your child. At church this sunday the sermon was about this. We went to Andrews preschool recognition service at Hazel Dell Christian Church. Very nice church, the people there are great. It was a great reminder of the ways to bless your child. Our kids were in the service with us, which is unusual for us. The older 2 were funny listening. Blessing your kids is very "intentional". On our own we would be selfish pigs. We really have to be "intentional" about touch, praise, prayer etc. It gets busy at our house and I sometimes go to bed and think: "did I laugh today?, did I hug the kids today? " I tend to beat myself up a lot. I really need to remind myself regularly of Gods Grace. My kids will "turn out" fine without me. God has big plans for them- we tell them this often. I need to beleive it and get out of His way.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

I never realized that if I only praised my kids when they do something right, then they will only focus on their performance. Thanks for sharing these 5 keys. I am looking forward to the next 3!